Shibari

Lounge

The place to not only lose yourself, but find yourself too.

Inclusive Rope Studio in Essex

Experience Kinbaku Workshops, Rope Jams, and Events Near London

A queer, neurodiverse shibari & kink-friendly studio in Leigh-on-Sea.
Shibari Workshops • Rope Jams • BDSM Education • Professional Photography • Shop Premium Asanawa Jute Rope

A warm, intimate studio by the sea

Shibari Lounge is a purpose-built rope studio in Leigh-on-Sea, Essex — just 40 minutes from London Fenchurch Street and just around the corner from London Southend Airport. Surrounded by the charm of old pubs, cockle sheds, and one of the closest beaches to the city, it’s a cosy and inclusive space to explore kinbaku in a calm, welcoming atmosphere.

We host rope jams, tie-along sessions, workshops and private lessons — designed to support beginners, nurture our ever growing community, and provide a safe space for those who are AuDHD or simply prefer a more chilled environment that isn't overstimulating or overcrowded.

About Shibari Lounge

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Shibari Lounge is more than a studio — it’s a space to learn, connect, and explore rope in a supportive community near London. Our events range from relaxed rope jams to in-depth workshops, always grounded in risk awareness, consent, and creativity.

Workshops, Rope Jams & Private Sessions

Here’s what you can expect on a monthly basis:

  • Weekly Rope Jams — inclusive, low-stimulation sessions to practise, socialise, and build confidence.

  • Begin & Bind Tie-Alongs — guided classes perfect for beginners taking their first steps into shibari or anyone wanting to cover Shibari Building Blocks.

  • Monthly Shibari Workshops — explore new skills with Bex Tatsunawa and guest educators from the UK and abroad.

  • Community Socials — life drawing, mixers, and game nights that bring our kinbaku family together.

  • Private Rope Lessons & Photography — one-to-one tuition, experiences or creative shoots in a calm, respectful setting.

Attending regularly? Our memberships make it easy to stay connected. Get flexible credits for rope jams and tie-alongs, plus discounts on workshops, tuition, and shop purchases.

Memberships & Perks

Sakunawa: The Shibari Shop – Rope & Rope Care

Our sister shop, Sakunawa: The Shibari Shop, offers premium hand-treated jute rope, skin-safe rope care, and curated shibari tools. Every item is chosen with care for flow, feel, and function — from Esinem Clara Premium Jute to Sakunawa balm and oil.

Learn all about us here

DID YOU KNOW…

You get get 5% off ALL Jute Asanawa rope purchases made in-house at a Shibari Lounge event and even more perks when becoming a Lounge Member?

Learn Beyond the Rope

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From jam snaps to creative socials, get a glimpse of life at Shibari Lounge.

  • Neon Knots (UV rope socials)

  • Art Entangled (shibari life drawing)

  • Weekly Rope Jams & Tie-Alongs

Inside The Lounge